Are you tired of reading about success and bored with positive thinking? Do you wonder why everybody else has it better? Let’s look at what solutions you need to create the kind of life you have always dreamed of. The following is a game plan to change your life for the best right now.
Stop wanting and start giving: Most people wonder why nothing good ever happens to them. Once there was a man who said, “If life was fair, I would be rich.” In truth, he was already rich. He did not have a mortgage, or rent to pay, and drove an expensive sports utility vehicle. He was materially very comfortable. He also had healthy children, and a loving wife.
However, he could not see what he actually had. He never gave a cent to charity and would not lift a finger to help anyone in need. He always imposed himself on others and asked for “favors.” He pictured his life as a poor man - even though he had plenty of money, material possessions, a loving family, and great health.
Years went by, and I saw him again, but this time he did not have a loving family. He had to pay rent because his mother-in-law threw him out of the house. He finally has the life he envisioned, but still wonders why he is so miserable.
Now, you might think he is in need of professional counseling, and you are absolutely right. This example is somewhat extreme, but there are many people who would fair better, if they helped others, and if they would let go of consumerism.
We should stop comparing our lives and possessions to what other people have. Make the most of your life, right now, and help anyone you can. You cannot be so busy, “making money,” that you have no time for your family or friends. Who will help you, if you never help anyone?
When thinking about life, goals, and aspirations, try thinking “outside the box.” Envision the end result of your hard work first. If you can truly see the fruits of your labor, you will envision your life in a positive way. As long as you are not hurting anyone, there is nothing wrong with moving forward toward your dreams.
This is a powerful way to develop your personality. Envision success, work toward your aspiration, and be prepared for any changes that happen along the journey of life. As a result, your vision will become reality.