Pop quiz, hotshot: What's the ONE THING you need to succeed in life, more than anything else? A university degree? A high income? A loving mother and father? Nope. More than anything else, you need to master social skills.

Let's take a look at how this works in the world of attraction. For so many men, it’s easy to believe that looks are all-important, but it’s WRONG. As Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, says, "The single biggest, most limiting belief guys have that keeps them from succeeding is the belief that LOOKS MATTER."

Hey, you can be the best-looking guy in the world, but if you can’t muster anything to say to a group of people, or don’t know how to hold their interest and make them WANT to get to know you, then you’re not going to attract women. Period.

The good news is, if you do know how to socially interact with people, nothing can stop you from attracting the gorgeous, high-quality women you desire! Even if you’re short, bald, fat, ugly, or all four, if you know HOW to make people laugh, HOW to captivate an audience’s interest, and HOW to build and share connections and relationships with people…then you’ll have no problem attracting gorgeous women!

With that said, let’s look now at the 5 essential skills for success in friendship, attraction, and business:

1. Story-Telling

This is vitally important. Tell a good story and men and women alike will adore you. A guy who can captivate an audience with awesome stories that draw listeners in impresses the HELL out of women and makes himself very attractive. It’s a combination of power, intelligence, and social maneuvering, all in one: a very attractive combination.

But you don’t have to have traveled around the world or scaled Mt. Everest to have an impressive story; what it all comes down to is how you present your story. That means your tonality, pitch, volume: all kinds of ways in which you talk. Great story-tellers take an otherwise boring tale and make it spell-binding.

For more great information on how to tell a compelling story, check out Renee Grant-Williams’ excellent book, Voice Power.

2. Cocky Comedy–specifically, busting someone’s balls and teasing.

As I teach people in my website, humor is one of the most powerful weapons around for building attraction. But the purpose of humor isn’t to make people laugh; it’s to show you have control and an ability to make people feel better in your presence. A guy who makes people laugh improves people’s moods and makes them want him to hang around–a truly awesome power to hold.

As David DeAngelo says,

"If you want to be funny, get a joke book. If you want to learn how to make a woman feel attraction for you by the way you talk to her and communicate with her, then focus what you’re going to learn on CREATING AND AMPLIFYING ATTRACTION."

This can be done in several ways, but the best are the funny ways that show that you are ABOVE her and don’t NEED her. Generally this means being a bit of a jerk and breaking a girl’s balls, especially in front of her friends.

One example is teasing a girl in front of her friends. A guy who has the balls to say, "Man, does this girl EVER shut up?" or "Is she always this annoying?" to a girl’s group of friends, commands awesome power. He will quickly fit into the group, make them laugh, and come off as a very cool, attractive guy, all in one.

Why? Because doing something ballsy and somewhat rude makes people remember you. People are bored everyday: in the morning they wake up, have a boring breakfast, drive their monotonous commute to work, get bored at work, drive the same monotonous commute back home, eat their boring dinner, watch their boring television, hang out with the same boring people, go to bed, wake up, and do it all over again.

They’re looking for something new…so it’s YOUR job to break their state! Give them something different, something funny, something that makes them say, "I can’t believe he just said that!" Breaking a girl’s balls–pointing out her ridiculous skirt, or some weird personality trait–takes people out of their element, makes them laugh, and creates an emotional connection to you. They remember you, and want to see you again.

Most importantly, they want their girlfriends to see you again! So if you can impress one girl in a group, you can impress them all! And that’s the quickest way to the sexual intimacy and attraction you so desire.

For more detailed information on how to use these skills for social mastery–and high-powered, sexual attraction–check out

http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/

3. Vocal Celibacy

This is an excellent, oft-overlooked skill that attraction expert, Carlos Xuma, recommends.

Believe it or not, sometimes the best skill is actually just to shut up. That’s right: a man who listens draws people in. Ever notice how women, and even men, flock to the guys who sympathize and listen to them?

Well, you don’t have be a soft, Dr. Phil type to be a good listener. In fact, listening brings with it a large amount of POWER. By pausing for a few seconds after someone says something, making them wait for you to respond, you make them feel uneasy, expecting…and, in the case of women, more attracted to you. Because you show you have the upper hand. You have control.

As Xuma notes,

"The next time a woman asks you a question, PAUSE for a little bit. Keep pushing the limit until you cannot answer the question at all. She’ll try to make you feel uncomfortable, but if you can handle that it’ll increase your confidence immeasurably."

More importantly, it will make HER more confident in you…she can’t help but want to be drawn into your universe. You’re unlike anyone she’s ever met before!

So, you ask, what are the fourth and fifth social skills you need to attract women?

Unfortunately, I can’t tell you it all here. It's just too good, and too detailed, to write a few short paragraphs about here! This is the real deal, the master blaster, the 2 skills that every man MUST use to get into a woman’s heart. It will make not only your target attracted to you, but her whole group of friends, as well! You'll also become much more confident in your ability to socially interact with people, and hey, that's an awesome feeling!